Whole Life Mentoring

Realization, Realize, Real

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”The start, and heart, of our Middle Third.” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] Realization… …this word is a noun, with a simple definition from Merriam-Webster: the state of understanding or becoming aware of something: the act of achieving something that has been planned or hoped for. Realization characterizes the start of our Second3rd of […]

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A View of Life from an Emerging Adult…

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”…The Decade from 20-30″ size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] (In all my 74 years of life, in my own decades of having lived through my own bits of joy and tumult personally and in our world, I need to clearly state, with deep thanks to our Creator, that from across the globe I am having

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Who are you?

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Have you explored this question?” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] (In all the decades of life one may be granted, that first decade is crucial for life-long development in all of the 8 Dimensions of the Circle of Life. Therefore, faithful grandparents have written about the value of life-enhancing mentoring of those kiddos in

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Doctor of the Core

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Think of a ‘Doctor of the Core’…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] During a recent Leadership Design Group Workshop, they gave me an assignment: “If I visited a ‘Doctor of the Core’ for a ‘core check-up’ What would I tell the doctor about the health of my core – Its values, integrity, and character?

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The First Decade of Life

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Zero to 10…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] That’s not the description of a very slow car at a drag race. It’s the crucial years of a child’s first decade of life. Mentors and other leaders, who are familiar with Leadership Design Group, know we view life in terms of decades: 0-10; 10-20; 20-30;

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The 9 Decades of Life

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”You Have 9 Decades of Life…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] What will you do with them? Life expectancy in the United States, you say, is only a bit short of 80 years on average, so what do you mean, Murphy, that I have 9 decades of life? My thinking: an average life expectancy

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Our Physical Dimension

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Not to be trite or casual…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …dying is a part of living. Between now and then, for you, how well do you plan to live? This we have been reminded of four times in the last three weeks. One friend was tragically murdered while trying to help a woman

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C. I. D. P. … Creativity and More

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”‘But…I’m not creative!’” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] Even around some of those on the planet with whom I am closest I too often hear this lament. That may be “slightly true” if comparison is being made to some friends who seem to have been born with a extra dose of creativity. BUT…that is

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Vocation and Identity

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Let Your Life Speak…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …Is the title of Parker Palmer’s small but potent book. It has become one of the most valuable books in my personal library. I first picked it up and read it in 2003 at the encouragement of a good friend. This is a big statement,

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Emotions and Attitude

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Stop yer bellyaching!” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] Growing up as a kid way back in the 1940’s and 50’s, this was my father’s comment to me from time to time. Those three words, sternly offered, meant that I had a limited about of time to change my emotions and attitude, get a better

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Curiosity and Intellect

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”‘Wonder is the beginning of wisdom.’ …Socrates” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] It was not her best day, thanks to me. Nor, frankly, was it one of mine. It was 1958, my Junior year of high school, in a small semi-rural western Oregon town. Ultimately there were 63 students in my graduating class. Most

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Renewal in the Social Dimension of Life

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Alone…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …High on a hill or tall mountain. This has been a place of significant renewal to me in the 62 years of my life. I still remember the joy of being an adolescent, alone high on the hill overlooking my hometown of Whittier, California. I could see my

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Whole-Life Heroes

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Heroes…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …at least the men and women I consider heroes, come in all sizes, capacities and conditions. Whether it’s imaginative, artistically created action figures of our comic book and/or movie heroes, or real time, living, breathing, eye-blinking heroes…heroes do come in all shapes, sizes and ages. One of my

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Foundational to Life: Your Personal Belief System

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”What is it you really believe to be true about life?” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] Your life. No one else.  Just you. Profoundly you… What is it you really believe to be true about your life? You and everyone you know (…and don’t know…) have initially been placed here on Planet Earth for

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Circular Thinking: Life Out Of The Huddle

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”‘OK, Line up!’” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] What does that command bring to mind? Good memories or bad? Will you run to the head of the line, or elbow your way to the back? It depends, of course, on the purpose of the line in the mind of the one commanding it. Your

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The Best of Mentoring…Transformational

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”I am intrigued…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …by the etymology of the word “transformation.” This is the 4th Pillar of the “best of mentoring” we are exploring in this space. Merriam-Webster, a long-time favorite go-to dictionary, defines etymology as an explanation of where a word came from: the history of a word. I

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The Best of Mentoring…Whole-Life

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”The third of four pillars…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …that help to define the intent of the best of mentoring we call “whole-life”. As shared in the last two weeks, the best of mentoring is always concerned with being intentional, moving toward deep change. No matter what is being explored, discovered, talked over,

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The Best of Mentoring…Deep Change

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”Continuing Thoughts on the Best of Mentoring…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] This week we will have celebrated Martin Luther King Day here in the US of A. Let us learn from his legacy. He, among many, bring to mind the crucial importance of the next pillar of the Best of Mentoring: Deep Change.

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The Best of Mentoring…The Beginning

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”The Best of Mentoring…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …will always rest on four pillars. Without these, it’s just a pleasant conversation, which is good to have, but it will not be the best of mentoring that makes a difference and changes lives, over time. Intentional… The best of mentoring is always intentional. Just

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Looking Ahead

[blox_column width=”1/1″][/blox_column][blox_heading title=”31-0 At Halftime…” size=”h3″ style=”style5″ animation=”none”][/blox_heading][blox_text animation=”none”] …How would you react? I suppose it would depend on whether your team was the one with 31 or the one with zero, wouldn’t it? In truth, how you react would depend on whether you are looking back—at the first half—or looking ahead at the half

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